Living With AuDHD: Sensory Overload and How to Reset

In short: Sensory overload is when noise, light, touch, smells or crowds exceed what your nervous system can process. It is very common in autism and ADHD. A plan helps you notice it early and recover.

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Sensory overload can feel like panic, irritability, a need to escape or a total shutdown. Many autistic and AuDHD adults experience it daily.

Signs of sensory overload

  • Irritability or sudden anger
  • Difficulty speaking or thinking
  • Covering ears or eyes; needing to leave
  • Physical tension, headache, nausea
  • Meltdown or shutdown

Common triggers

  • Shopping centres, open-plan offices, school pick-up
  • Fluorescent or flickering lights
  • Strong perfume, food smells
  • Scratchy clothing, labels
  • Several people talking at once

The reset plan

  1. Exit or reduce input β€” step outside, close eyes, put on headphones.
  2. Deep pressure β€” a weighted lap pad, a firm hug, pressing palms together.
  3. Slow breathing with longer out-breaths.
  4. A familiar stim β€” see stimming in adults.
  5. Recovery time β€” plan quiet time afterwards.

Prevent it

Carry a sensory kit: earplugs or headphones, sunglasses, a fidget, a snack.

Sources & further reading

Last checked: 31 October 2026. If you spot something out of date, tell us.