In short: ADHD paralysis is freezing when faced with too many tasks, decisions or emotions. It is an executive-function and emotional-regulation problem, not laziness.
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ADHD paralysis is the term many people use for feeling completely stuck — knowing what you need to do but being unable to start. It often follows overwhelm, perfectionism or too many choices.
1. Name it
“I’m in paralysis” reduces shame and makes the next step clearer.
2. Shrink the first step
Not “do taxes” — “find the SARS login”.
3. Pick for yourself randomly
Write tasks on paper, close your eyes, point.
4. Set a 5-minute timer
Permission to stop after five minutes lowers the barrier.
5. Change your environment
Move rooms, go to a café, stand up.
6. Use body doubling
See body doubling.
7. Move your body
A short walk or jumping jacks can shift your state.
8. Regulate your senses
Reduce noise, try a fidget, eat something.
9. Lower the standard
“Good enough” beats “perfect but never”.
When to seek help
If paralysis is constant and affects work or relationships, an assessment and treatment may help — see getting assessed.
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